Its very easy to turn your boyfriend on by talking dirty. Its also a great way to spice up your love life. Its not always the things you choose to say but how you say them. If you blurt out a comment with no emotion or feeling in it then its nothing more than a wasted word! For example imagine saying this with no feeling at all. I like it when you do that. At that point you have left your lover wondering what it is you like because chances are he was doing more than one thing or your tone of voice was so plain and emotionless hes trying to figure what hes doing wrong instead of right!
Men are often thought of as horn dogs they want one thing and one thing only THEIR organism! Thats not true at least not in 99% of all committed relationships. The majority of men are more eager to please the woman than themselves.
The best way to turn your lover on and talk dirty to him is to share your secret fantasies with him. Dont even say you dont have a secret fantasy! In the event you really dont then you need to get one and fast!
The secret to sharing your fantasy even if its about Keanu Reeves AND Patrick Swayze and involves the three of you on a deserted island with a shipwrecked boat full of adult toys, you have to be a little discrete and pretend that Keanu and Patrick dont really exist and its just you and your lover on the island full of adult toys. I think you get the picture and technically its not lying because your lover isnt going to tell you that Jennifer Aniston and Halley Berry just showed up too!
Spend a few minutes talking about what the two of you would do on the island of adult toys. Then have him share his fantasy with you. By now both of you should be turned on.
At this point its fun to tease him a little and let his imagination carry him away once hes sufficiently turned on continue to tell him a little story of the two of you and your island adventure. Encourage him to do the same about his fantasy and before you know it you both be swept up in your secret fantasy world having awesome sex.
Turning your boyfriend on by talking dirty using your fantasies can continue as a story each time you climb into bed. When you finish one fantasy you can move on to another one.